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For the moments when your child or teen is struggling and what you're being told hasn't fully explained it.
Helping parents understand what's happening underneath behaviour so children and teens can build confidence in everyday life
​If you've ever found yourself thinking
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“They were fine at school, then fell apart at home”
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“I keep repeating myself and they are not listening”
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“They can focus for hours - just not on what’s asked”
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“It feels like there’s more going on - but I can’t quite explain it”
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You're not imagining it.
There is more happening.
"The hardest part isn't the behaviour. It's watching my child lose access to themselves in moments that matter - and quietly wondering what those moments are shaping over time."
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- Fabian Santana, Ride The Spectrum
Most approaches focus on behaviour
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What we focus on, is what's happening underneath it.
​Because behaviour is often the surface of something else.
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overwhelm
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processing
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emotional build-up
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effort to fit in
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When you understand that, your responses change​, and that's where things begin to become clear.
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Father & Carer
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Lived Experience
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Diploma - Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
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NLP Mindset Coach
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WWCC Verified (WA)
Meet Fabian
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This ride isn't about surviving.
It's about becoming the informed parent your child can rely on.
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I'm a father with lived experience, an NLP mindset coach, and hold a Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy.
But the credential that matters most in this work is the one that isn't on any certificate, raising my own son on the spectrum, every day.
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Like many parents. I reached a point, where what I was seeing,
didn’t fully match what I was being told.
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There were moments that didn’t make sense.
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Moments where things escalated quickly and what I was applying were not working, no matter how many times we attempted them.
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What changed things wasn’t pushing harder. It was understanding what was happening underneath those moments.
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That’s what Ride The Spectrum is built on
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A different way forward
Every challenge has a pattern.
Every pattern can be changed.
Most support addresses the surface. Ride The Spectrum works at the level where change actually forms, regulation, identity, and the internal conditions that make growth possible.
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This isn't about fixing your child or your teenager. It's about changing the conditions where they - and you can grow.
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Regulation before strategy
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No tool works when the nervous system is flooded. We build the regulation foundation first
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Identity, not just behaviour
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Behaviour changes are fragile when identity hasn't moved. We work at the level of who they believe they are.
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Practical tools that transfer
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Everything taught is designed to work outside a session in real moments, under real overwhelm.
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Lived experience, not just theory
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Nothing taught here hasn't been lived first. This work grew from daily reality and deepened through study.
When you are ready to start
Three ways to work together
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Each offering is designed for a different person at a different stage. There's no wrong door - choose what feels closest to where you are right now.
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For Parents
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Parent Coaching​
Build the internal strength, emotional regulation and composure to lead your home with calm authority - even in the toughest moments.
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Stress and emotional overload managed
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Frustration replaced with connection
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Reaction shifted to response
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$180 online - $230 in person
For Teenagers
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Teen Confidence Coaching
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Help your teenager understand how their mind actually works and build confidence that anchors itself when life gets difficult.
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Confidence built from the inside out
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Overwhelm understood and reduced
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Identity and self-worth strengthened
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$180 standard · $230 extended
Instant Access
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Language of Influence
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Practical language shifts you can use today in your next tense moment. The framework that changes how your words are received.
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e Book + Audio Book
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​language reframes you can use today
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Immediate digital download
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Start before your next difficult moment
✓WWCC Compliant (WA) - Online & In Person
Group settings
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Three events held randomly throughout the year. Join the one
that's right for you.
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